"Questions"
Did you walk away from love,into the hands that are not holy?
Did you turn from all you know is true, all for something just for you?
(This is exactly what I did with my eating disorder- I walked away from love, the love of God, family, and friends. I turned away from everything I knew was true. In recovery, I’m still finding my way back).
I don't know anymore, these riddles that fill our lives
I thought I knew the answers to the questions,a way to see around the lies
But this motion of rejection,to turn your life in the other direction
Can you justify it all? Does it make sense in your mind?
Did you, did you know, the road's not easy and it can be slow?
But why, why did you go?
(Why DID I go down that road? I didn’t wake up one day and choose to have an eating disorder, but there were times I deliberately chose it over everything and anything else. It still doesn’t make sense in my mind. I don’t know why I went, but at least I came back.)
Can you justify it all? Can you make it all worthwhile?
When it all comes back around, can you look at your life and smile?
(I can’t justify it all. I can’t make it all worthwhile. While I was in the ED, I definitely could NOT look at my life and smile. But I believe that God can. He can justify it. He can make it all worthwhile. If given the chance, I’m not sure I would change what I went through with the eating disorder. What God has done through it, my ability to reach out to other people THAT makes it worthwhile to me.)
Take a look at all the roads you know, which path is right and which is wrong?
(When I am struggling with something these days, even in recovery I can look at the different options I have…sink in to self-pity, go back to being self-destructive and in the ED)
Can you take the one you know is wrong and convince yourself that it is right?
(Yep, I did this for years…)
All it takes is a little lie, all it takes is a little deception
(SO true)
Does the life you're living now have a purpose and a meaning?
(I’m not sure what it is, but I know my life does have a purpose and meaning. I have no doubt that part of that has to do with how far I have come, what I have come out of and how that can be used to help other people.)
God can give you everything you ever really needed
(I thought the ED would give me everything I needed. Love. Attention. Meaning. Someone who cares… ED never delivered on that. God has, but only if I let Him).
Just turn your life over to him, give it all away, nothing is more rewarding
It will justify it all, it will make it all worthwhile
When it comes back around, you will look at your life and smile
Copyright 2006 Jeret Lockhart
I’m so thankful for where I am today in terms of my recovery. Yes, it is still a battle, most of the time in my head. I have been free from the behaviors but I’d be lying if I said it were a walk in the park or easy all the time, but it DOES get easier. Thinking about where I was a year ago, or for the majority of the past 10 years and comparing it to where I am now I am so grateful. I am so grateful that when it all does come back around (and believe me, it does) I can look at my life and smile.
(P.S. Music is amazing isn't it? Another thing I'm grateful for is awesome music that plays a part in my recovery)